Separating or thinking of separating? Want to know where to start? Separation is one of the most difficult experiences that people can live through.
Knowing where to turn and what to do, especially in the early stages, can help you stay focussed and on track.
If you are looking for a Lane Cove Family Lawyer then we are close by.
Doolan Wagner Family Lawyers have been assisting separating couples in the Lane Cove area for many years. We offer advice and representation in any of the following areas:
- Property Settlements
- Child Support
- Super Splitting
- De Facto Matters
- Family Dispute Resolution
If you are looking for a family or divorce lawyer in Lane Cove but are not sure who to approach or how to make the right decision for you then read on – the following questions will be invaluable in helping you make the best decision for your family:
Lawyers Accredited by the Law Society of New South Wales as Family Law Specialists possess a high degree of competence in their field of expertise. They are technically good and know their way around the relevant laws. How you relate to your lawyer and whether or not you understand them and feel that they understand you however can be equally if not more important when choosing a family lawyer to represent you.
A family lawyer with lots of good experience can make the difference between reaching a family law settlement out of Court or not. Experienced family lawyers can more easily overcome roadblocks and break impasses between separating parties in any negotiating. Family lawyers bring a large number of options and scenarios to the negotiating table. They are an invaluable asset.
All family lawyers are bound by professional rules of conduct. They also have duties to the Family Court. It is in this context that your family lawyer is compelled to best advance your case. They are your advocate and will push hard to achieve the optimum outcome for you in your separation.
The family law system in Australia is very paper-based. Lots of disclosure documents, especially in financial matters, are required to be disclosed. Being organised and gathering documents in a timely fashion goes a long way to assisting your family lawyer sort out your separation. It can also make it far more cost-effective.
What are the best questions to ask a family lawyer before you engage them to act in your separation?
Probably the 3 best questions to ask any potential family lawyer:
1. what sets them apart from others?
2. how can they help you in your particular separation?
3. what options can they identify for you to help you stay out of Court?
Additionally, one question that often helps is:
4. what would you do if you were me?
The right family lawyer for you will have listened to your story, have developed empathy and a “game plan” to get you out of your situation in the best way possible. If they can quickly answer this last question to your satisfaction, then go with them. If in doubt, don’t.
The short answer to this question is “no” but there are advantages and disadvantages to both. A large firm is likely to be more resourced however this can be costly and result in you being “lost in the system”. In a smaller firm, you are likely to receive a personal service and feel like you really count. The costs may be lower however you need to be confident that the team is large enough to manage your situation if it runs off the rails. Choose a boutique specialist family law firm big enough to get the job done but small enough for you to really matter.
The better family lawyers are:
1. strategic thinkers;
2. financially literate;
3. appreciative and attuned to commercial realities ;
4. able to read most situations and apply good judgement;
5. respectful of others, understanding and patient with challenging situations;
6. can leave their ego at the door and don’t entertain one-upmanship tactics.
In short, good family lawyers focus on the problem and do not get too personal with the people. They are solution orientated and equipped with many strategies to achieve good outcomes.
These posts are only intended as an overview or comment on current issues that may interest you and are not legal advice. If there are any matters that you would like us to advise you on, then please contact us.